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Sunday, February 26, 2012
RECIPES: STIR- FRY SPINACH ORZO PASTA SALAD

Friday, February 24, 2012
Don' Miss This Consignment!!!
Monday, February 20, 2012
Sunday, February 19, 2012
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Baseball Problem Solved #4: Making Contact With the Ball, Here's The Drill
Monday, February 13, 2012
Did You Know: That Valentines Originated From A Final Love Letter Signed... Sincerely, Your Valentine!

Where did Valentine's Day Originate? Was it a made up holiday for stores to make more money? Was it a special day created to break up the monotony of winter or was it something a wife started to get special attention from her mate.
Saturday, February 11, 2012
Gavin Tale Twister #41: Sammy NEVER has my back!
This evening Gavin and I sat sadly on my office couch and remembered our beloved dog Louie. After we ate Mac and Cheese, we felt better. Gavin asked in a sad voice "Mom, do you think Carson would accept a friend request from me?" Carson(12) is a family friend who hangs around Sammy (12) but by default has to spend time with Gavin as well. Gavin loves hanging out with the older boys but they don't really enjoy his 3rd grade humor. Gavin Tale Twister #40: That's For Bananas Mom!

Gavin (8) and I were sitting at the computer this morning entering data about Gavin so 10 years from now we can see how much he has grown. We got to the ENTER WEIGHT part and I asked Gavin if he remembered how much he weighed when he went to the doctor just a couple months ago. He said he couldn't remember! So I took a guess. "Maybe around 125 pounds Gavin?" Immediately Gavin's defenses went up. "MOM! I only weigh 90 or even maybe 70 pounds!" Does't that sound like an 8 year old's comment?
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Gavin Tale Twister #39: The Tooth Fairy and Dad

Tonight Gavin lost a tooth. At bed time... naturally... he was in our bed with his tooth in a zip lock snack bag. Canadian Man Bill was worried the Tooth Fairy wouldn't be able to find Gavin's zip lock (or maybe forget to stop by like has happened so many times before) so he said to Gavin:
Sunday, February 5, 2012
RECIPES: CUMIN SPICED GREEN BEANS

RECIPES: VIDALIA ONION DIP (Super Bowl Party Perfect)

THIS IS NOT MY ORIGINAL RECIPE SO I WOULD NOT USUALLY POST THIS ON MY BLOG SITE BUT BECAUSE I SO MANY HAVE ASKED ME FOR THIS RECIPE, I FINALLY DECIDED TO POST IT. I GOT IT FROM MY DEAR FRIEND KELLY AND I AM SO THANKFUL THAT SHE SHARED BECAUSE IT IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE DIPS TO MAKE. I ALWAYS HAVE THESE ITEMS IN THE HOUSE IN CASE WE HAVE UNEXPECTED COMPANY. IT IS A SUPER HIT EVERY TIME I MAKE IT.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Gavin Tale Twister #38: Charlie Bit My Finger! THE SEQUEL

Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Gavin Tale Twister #37: Check Your Pockets!
Monday, January 23, 2012
Older and Wiser #1: Now You Have Hindsight!
Following breaking news of the scandal that broke mid November 2011, Joe Paterno was quoted saying "It is one of the great sorrows of my life. With the benefit of hindsight, I wish I had done more.” He is now dead 3 months later, complications of lung cancer or maybe a broken heart.
In case you missed it, I usually do, here's the skinny. Joe Paterno fondly know as JoePa, is considered the winningest coach in college football coaching Penn State for 46 years.His coaching style focused on character, academics and honor first and championships second. Mid season of 2011 JoePa's former assistant, Jerry Sandusky, was accused of molesting 10 boy over 15 years and some of them in the football building itself.
What does that have to do with JoePa you ask? Well another graduate assistant reported to JoePa seeing such abuse going on in the shower of the football complex way back in 2002. JoePa praised the assistant for doing the right thing by telling him and took the information reporting it to the school and left it at that.
When I look at it from his point of view, maybe he did do what he thought was his responsibility at the time. His boss, "the school" has some responsibility too. Right?
Is that what you or I would have done? I have never been in those shoes but I think if it had been his own child that this had happened too, he would have followed up. JoePa's response was that " this sort of thing was not usually heard of back then." Maybe it didn’t. Maybe he had such belief in his employers and that they would do the right thing that he just left it at that.
I feel sorry that after all of his life contributions, JoePa died before the scandal was resolved and before he could be vindicated.
That could have been any of our children in that same situation. I would like to think that adults, teachers and coaches are there to not only teach our kids but to protect them from hare. If it were my child that were abused I think I would have done something more so so why not do it for someone else's child?
That reminds me of the movie "A Time To Kill" starring Samuel L Jackson, Matthew McConaughey, and Sandra Bullock. That was a great movie and you should rent it if you have not seen it.
So Really!What would you do? Really? What would you do?
Don't just wish you had the benefit of hindsight because now you have it.
Don't let your life end like JoePa's did. Make all that is wrong in your life right before the hindsight kicks you right in the face.


